I have a set activated, and I want to get 2 out of 4 items out of it, but whenever I "deactivate" them they stay in the set and on my tori, and when I "activate" them it stays the same. I try deactivating the whole set but that just gets everything off. I can't get them out of the set either

what do

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ahh nvm i suk bi