It randomly says iam not connected when iam trying to join / create a game. i do have my internett online

I have this to... but while playing... in the last turn befor i win...or shortly befor my game beginns...
many times!

Mine says not connected too when i go to join/create a match

Hello there,

Did you try uninstalling toribash then re-installing again?
If you didn't try that

Yup, try uninstalling and reinstalling, worked for me when I had this.