Hm, why don't you try..updating your drivers, and turning frameskip on. soft shadows off, reflections off, fluid blood off, and turn anti-aliasing off. and it miiiiiiight work, but that's a long shot. Good luck.
1. Ask future questions in Support.
2. Try not to bump old threads, it attracts a lot of flak here for no good reason.
3. Clarify. I don't know what you mean by "I can't find it!".
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