If you watch any toribash vid on youtube you are bound to come across one that has the dude grab the torso,chest or stomache area and then grab an arm a leg or the head and use his elbows and pecs to tear them apart...

I have tried pretty much every mod and it wont work is there some mod in specific that i need to use or am i just doing it wrong?

You aint Disembering them because you dont have enuf momentum

to gain momentum you have to use all of your joints respectively such as if your punching with right hand you left turn your chest/lumbar or both that way your stronger and its easier k?

You can put a lot of power into punches by using your hips and glutes.

If you post a replay we might be able to help you.

Ok ill make a replay but it isnt the punching it's the tearing them using grab y'know pulling them apart.

It's more likely the part breaks on the impact and they are pulling it away afterwards. Tearing is quite difficult.

Why wont he tear apart thats the sort of thing they do in teh vids and they come apart.

In which video are they tearing uke apart?

The part where he grabs the body and the head, trying to dismember the head from the rest of the body by pulling them in opposite directions. It'd seem obvious, but I can't see that grab getting him anywhere though.

Like this?

I asked in which video and not when. I'm quite sure they aren't tearing uke apart. They are breaking uke the common way.