So how many 1 day bans do you have to get to be banned for 5 days then month then months then perm? Or is it like fuck him he's a anus so I'm going to perm ban him?

5 points >> 1 day
10 points >> 5 days
15 points >> 1 month
etc
20 points >> perma

There's the infraction system itself, and there's the people who get infractions.

Don't cause trouble, don't get banned. Read the rules to know how to keep out of trouble.

Is this active points only?

Yes.
Only active points stack.
( Some infractions can be permanent but usually not. )

Thanks ^^