^This. Out of my experience, no matter what the problem is, talking is always the best option.
How old are you? Not trying to make any kid jokes here, it's just that it is really common for teenagers, and the problem often fades away in time. Doh, i'm 18 and i still sometimes yell to my mom, although it only happens when she starts by raising her voice noticeably in a way she knows it will draw my attention 100%, and in the end we are both shouting. In these cases we're conversating about important things which we have very different views on, and both are quite stubborn.