Actually, I used to experience this problem quite a bit when I was younger. And when I say quite a bit, I mean quite I bit. I was rejected under the basis that I was quote "too innocent" a number of times. I guess I still am slightly innocent, but hey, nothing's wrong with that.
As I grew older, I realized that the girls who rejected me for that same basis came back, because I was nice to them. Of course, they'd already been with a lot of guys, so I didn't really take much interest in them anymore anyway.
Honestly, the girls that go for the bad guys will learn, and eventually come back to the nice guys... But when that happens... Would you really still want them? In my own opinion-- and this is a virgin's opinion-- would you really want someone who had sex many times before you? If you've already had sex as much as them, maybe it's a different story... But really.
When a girl complains about being humped, and dumped, I don't really feel very sorry for them at all-- I'm sorry to say it, but they deserve it. If you play with fire, you're bound to get burned. I know it's a tad harsh, but it's really true.
So with that in mind I must say this. It took me a while, but I found a steady girlfriend, who was not into 'bad guys'. I was lucky enough to find a girl who-- like me-- has not done anything with the opposite sex.
If you look hard enough, and hold out long enough, you'll find the person you're looking for.
If a girl has 'been around the block a few times', then you're looking for heartbreak anyway. They might think they had better before you, and would probably break up for you based on that, or because they don't want to be serious. Girls are strange sometimes, yeah, I know that. And I've asked a few, but they don't even know why they do it.
Maybe they want someone to comfort them, or maybe they just want to play, or maybe they don't even have a reason... Sometimes they just don't feel the same way about you at all. And just to throw this out there... Would you put your genitalia inside of someone else's sex toy? I know that a girl might be much cleaner than that, but if she's been around the block more than once, you're just as likely to catch a disease from her.
So, to all my friends out there... Some women are hard to understand, but there are ones that will give you time to understand themselves.
I don't know about you all, but when my girlfriend feels I might not be able to understand her, she explains why she's acting a certain way. Not only that, but it helps to be patient. Really, it's a mutual thing.
