If to be honest with you guys.
I have a similar problem here. I've spent more than two years in toribash community. And everytime i visit forums i don't have where to go. The only place i usually post now is Doc board (<3). Used to post in wibbles but it's getting boring there.
If KitFoX or any other Ninja,smod would tell me that there is no chance for me to get 'higher rank' i would definately quit. There wouldn't be any reasons for me to stay if i would know that i won't reach a shit in this community.
End of the story.