It's a little hard to not feel a little bitter about being second-choice
But I do realize that everybody has a reason for joining a clan (friends, in-game fun, etc) and it's hard to stay when that reason isn't being fulfilled.
numbers have some prejudice to me,first time i got 2 yes'es from rafufu and eycoco,now its yes from majicpooky and they still disscus with numbers why he told "no :|"