Shoveling is not that big of a deal. You just have to know if they're going to shovel or not. And even if you get wrong it still is not impossible to win. If you know they're going to shovel I found that trying to get low helps out a lot. Also if you feel like risking it you could always try to break your opponents shoulders.

noobclapping isnt nooby, just pointing it out. It just makes sure that the opponent doesnt do anything worse, like leg grab or what not.

I don't like people who hold to much in aikdio ://

Oh well you'd hate me them moncho, i let go more frequently if people rage as a kindness, but personally I'm in love with slams, suplexes and the like. And it's a good way from turning aikido into judo.

I hate it when players force me into a suplex.

And then they start whimpering because you suplexed them.

Losing.

i hate that abd is focused on points and dms rather then throws and pindowns. also tripoding.
this is why i like classic aikido or spiritwrestling