Here's a tip.
Be more mature around here, it will get you the respect you'll need to start a respectful clan.
Apologizing was a good first step, but now you must earn their trust as well. You won't be able to stop people from posting here, but you can react properly. When they tell you to do something differently, at least think about what it would do for your clan. If you read the stickies and put more effort into this, it will have a much higher chance of succeeding.
When I started here, I wasn't anything special, I was just another member trying to start a clan. I acted maturely and helped other players, and slowly I gained respect and trust, and managed to create my own clan. The admins at the time noticed I was mature and helpful, and promoted me to moderator. I used that power fairly and to promote goodwill, and eventually became a Super Moderator. From there I made myself even more useful, and etched out a place for myself among the admins. All of these good things that have happened to me, however, would not have come to pass were I not mature and helpful from the very beginning.
It is unlikely that you will walk the same road, but you'll never get anywhere if you don't take your first steps.