Being perfect in toribash is mastering wushu, judo, aikido, tekkyon, running, sparring, dancing, etc. Theres limitless things to get better at, if you practice a lot on one thing, move to the next thing, then the next while of course keeping each skill sharp.
Actually SP is mostly where you can tell the true skill in Toribash. In mp, there's always luck.
For forums (and in general) a good Toribash player is active, fun loving, participates, helps out and making friends and having a sense of humor helps.