Originally Posted by Bwamp
There are two girls that are interested in me, but I am interested in a relationship only for physical pleasure. How do I use them for gratification without killing my chances at future prospects?
Well, the best thing (morally) to do in this sort of situation is to try to accomplish your goal without being dishonest to anyone. So, if you think it would be safe, just be upfront with the girls and say something like "hey, I'm not really looking for anything super serious right now, but I really dig you." Depending on the girl, they will either accept or reject the idea (more often than not, sadly, the girl will reject it).
If either of them accepts, congrats
use a condom and don't let guilt get in your way. Just remember not to USE them, but to try to have fun WITH them, not at their expense. Now, in the more likely event that this sort of open philandering is not an option, first you should consider whether or not this is something you are really ok with doing. All guys talk shit, but I have also found that if you ask any guy his honest opinion he will tell you that 9 times out of 10 he would rather get involved with someone than just fuck and run. Casual sex can be fun, but it also tends to leave the participants feeling empty and dirty, usually because people who THINK they know what they are in for really don't. Still something you want to do? Are you ready to risk feeling like a worthless whore? If so, read on.
O.k., so two girls like you, and you want to get some without one hand knowing what the other is doing I suppose. The ONLY way that this will work is if you lie. Lie a lot, lie like you have never lied before, and don't stop to consider these poor girls feelings. You will have to be callous. Your best bet is to set up dates on different days with each one. It will probably take a few dates for each girl, so you have a lot of planning and organising to do. If you can manage that and keep it going long enough to get to second base or so, than you can figure out what would be the best way to manipulate your way into their pants, but again, you will have to be a liar.
Honestly this is something I don't condone because manipulation is one of my HUGE pet peeves with people. Personally I hope you get dick warts from this little adventure, but eh, to each their own, and at the end of the day I don't judge you. Just don't be surprised when one of the girls finds out about the other, because it WILL happen (there are no free rides in life after all). When this happens, depending on the girl, you will most likely have at least one guy looking to kick your ass, though it could be a few. Hopefully you know how to fight.
Bottom line, if you end up getting some, and everyone is over 18, film it and send it to me. Because a slime ball such yourself doesn't care anyway, and I will never turn down free pr0n.
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Dear deady, referring to your first post, I must ask, what is "avan"?
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lol, firs off, you should probably get rid of the idea of "making a living" from being a musician. The fact is that the world is saturated with musicians, and while you might make 20 or 30 bucks by playing a bar show, you typically end up spending way more than you earn. One thing you could do to make some scratch is offer lessons. A lot of people want to learn guitar, but are afraid to try, so having someone there to guide them through it is helpful and they are willing to pay for it.
As for finding a band, if you are in school right now there are probably many, many musicians on your campus, try to find them by going to shows or joining school centred music activities. Another great resource is Craigslist and sites like that. One that I know used to be good is garageband.com, though I'm not sure if it is still in operation. But yeah, either way, don't plan on making money for your music, because it almost never happens. If you want to play live, do it for the experience of playing a show, because its a blast and in some ways its way more awesome than a paycheck.
Thanks a lot deady (just realised the grammar fails in my previous post, don't feel like editing though). Pretty interesting links and the ideas to find other musicians. I do mainly want to play for the feeling of it (I played live once and it wasan undescriptible experience), I was thinking of the finanial retribution as a bonus, my main problem was finding a band.
Also, are we allowed to give complementary advice to other people in this thread or is it only directed to you?
Originally Posted by DrunkenMonkey
Dear deady, referring to your first post, I must ask, what is "avan"?
lol, dick. "avan" is the sort of stupid typos you make when you type as much as I do. It was supposed to be "even" but honestly looking at my keyboard, it doenst make any sense that I would slip and hit "a" twice...but, eh, I will edit it I guess.
Originally Posted by Muffindo
Also, are we allowed to give complementary advice to other people in this thread or is it only directed to you?
Well, for now I think it would be best to keep it to PMs. Not to sound like a pompous fuck wit, but if everyone started advising everyone else than this thread would just be "general advice". If enough people ask though, I supposed there is nothing I could do to stop it :P
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