Originally Posted by
Monobi
I can understand this man and support this shit with experience.
Not only have I done this myself, but as a bisexual social mastermind I was able to start off as the gay friend and then end up as boyfriend. Its the perfect place to learn/understand eachother and then take full advantage of that knowledge and what not.
Do it, faggots. Seriously.
PS: Quote from bash:
I never expected that to be the solution, although I did have friends that pondered it. There is some deep truth in both statements, though. Bisexuality is not quite the way to go. What you need to do is be a good friend. It's a bit of a hit and miss kind of thing, depending on the girl, and it's not worth it if you only want to have sex with them. Being a good friend, who often suggests slightly sexual or loving things may be the best way to go in my opinion. That way, they will catch the hint that you like them.
You must know, though, that the only way this works is in the presence of a 'good girl'. Said girl must be looking for a committed relationship, and must not have had terrible experiences prior to you. You'll have to prove you're trustworthy either way, but you'll have a much harder time if something bad has happened to them at an earlier time.
Of course, some girls just don't get it. If you know for a fact that the girl likes you, but cannot quite decide whether or not to be with you... Well, you're going to have to really fight it out. You'll have to work really hard to see things through your way... Because the girl won't want to aid in this process, unless she knows it will work-- unless she just wants play.
Be afraid of girls that only want 'play'. You're not going to get them to fall in love with you, unless you're Mr. Smooth. And when you do, prepare to be obsessed over.
... So yeah. I could go on, but I bet you're all saying 'tch. yeah, right'. So I'm just going to stop after saying "Be honest. Be trustworthy. Be kind. Be gentle. Be honorable."