Originally Posted by
Alan
Dear deady, I need to get better at school and I fucking hate it and I never learn, what can I do? I never do homework, I never study for exams, In other words I'm really lazy.
What can I do to fix my lazyness?
Well, man, like I told fat0ninja, there really is no way to "fix" this. Like, this is something I have struggled with my entire life (notice how many replies this thread got over the three days it was open, because when I was doing this I probably should have been doing homework >.>) and there really is no easy or simple way to get around it. You're only choice is to suck it up, and do the shit.
Depending on the person, you might have some sort of behavioural issues that may be negatively affecting you. I spent a long time thinking this sort of thing was bullshit, and while I DO still think that ADD and ADHD are over diagnosed (either for an easy answer or to move prescriptions) but I also have come to realise that there is a good amount of validity to it all in some cases. God knows school has never been something I have the patience or discipline for, even though I really do love to learn and have been told I am at least moderately intelligent. Which is, I'm guessing, the case with you and fat0ninja and a whole lot of other people, you aren't dumb, you just don't do the shit.
It might help to talk to your parents or guardians or whoever will listen and could do something about it, talk to them honestly. Just tell them you cant bring yourself to do anything, you don't know why, and you want to fix it. Other than that, the only advice I could ever give, and the only thing you are likely to ever hear is "man up and just do the shit" and admittedly sometimes it isn't that simple...
Now I'm off to do homework :/ I'm creeping up on 30 and still doing homework. lol, life is grand.