Zelda, 'equanimity', for you, is the name of the game. You need to learn how to control your emotions - especially if you're after a position of responsibility on the forums. You cannot let an online tiff with someone mentally unbalance you so much. You're not dumb, you should also have the foresight to restrain yourself from posting should you get worked up like that. You control how you react to challenging experiences/emotions - you can choose to let them imbalance you, and you end up making stupid decisions, or you can choose to not let it affect you and continue on being the sober, smart Zelda. This really is good life advice, I use it myself.


We're not kicking you. It's harder for you to stay balanced than other people, and I recognise that. You do need to start making improvements though.

That said, I've moved Link up to leader and demoted you for now. You've previously acknowledged that you're not really doing 'much' around the place, whereas people like Link and IIInsanEEE are doing heaps (Nerti's done a whole load too). So, I'd like to see you make more of an impact and improve your equanimity. If you do that there's no reason you couldn't be reinstated as leader.

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Yeah, when shit gets hairy in Discussion I have to refer it to the higher-ups as well. It's not that bad though, you can usually always find someone in IRC to do it for you right away.

Other than the first big post and the idea of staff having their own say (two-tiered thing), Lazors (+everyone else) what else do you think should be included in the prop we'll post on the suggestions board?