now that i know how to find the toribash folder for the steam version..
i went to replays and tried to open one of the replays and this shows up http://prntscr.com/4xzhmb

And the 2nd problem which doesnt really have anything to do with that is...
i made a replay yesterday and tried to view it today and it worked but for some reason its showing that i played with..
or no someone else played with the guy i was playing with.. screenshot: http://prntscr.com/4xzfbl

wtf is wrong with the steam version : S?